There are times in our lives when we seem to face impossible
choices. This situation is represented
when either choice is bad, and perhaps all we are left with is a choice of bad
or worse. The movie ‘Sophie’s Choice’ is
another example of an impossible choice.
For an independent Islamic Mexican American citizen, the upcoming
election may also be another impossible choice.
The “impossibility” represents our resistance to making the choice, and
our belief that some options cannot be reconciled. But the thread that runs through our choices,
the impossible scenarios, is always an element of evil. Stealing in order to keep my family from
starving, is still stealing. A mother
choosing which one of her children will die, leaves one of them still
murdered. Pulling the election lever for
President still elects a very flawed human being, who may do many things that
increase the burden on our poor, as few candidates seem to genuinely care about
the poor from either party. In all our
examples, an element of evil, or evil’s potential exists.
The other common thread in all our impossible choices is our
inability to see past our self-imposed human constraints. Were we to introduce an all-powerful God into
our scenarios, our outcomes become expanded beyond what our human eyes can
see. As I pray to feed my family, my God
provides for our needs when I could not, and we are fed without theft. Were Sophie to have introduced the true power
of Christ into her impossible situation, guardian angels may have been
dispatched in mass, or hearts and minds may have been melted by love, or eyes
of persistent evil may have been temporarily blinded. When God enters her scenario possibilities
begin to emerge that are not there without Him.
When we make our vote for our President, a very flawed human being, with
the support of a nation’s collective prayers, may have his/her weakness turned
into strength, their minds opened to wisdom, their hearts opened to love in the
extreme, and our nation prosper as never before. For with God all things are possible.
But to attempt to use scripture, to define an impossible
situation, for our God … is the height of all arrogance. To try to use the Bible, to “tell” our God
what He can and cannot do, presumes that we know His scriptures better than He
does, and that our interpretation is absolute, and essentially that He must defer
to our wisdom. This sounds crazy. And it is crazy. But our Pharisee forefathers did exactly
that, rather our Sadducee forefathers in this instance. We will review the encounter Peter recalls to
John Mark in chapter 12 of his gospel.
And for many of us, we will focus on the arrogance of the Sadducees, and
mock them in our minds, thinking how stupid they must have been to try
something like this. While never
imagining how often we do it ourselves.
As we take a second look at this encounter, let us keep an open mind
about how we may be equally guilty in what the Sadducees attempted.
John Mark records the incident picking up in verse 18 saying
… “Then come unto him the Sadducees, which say there is no resurrection; and
they asked him, saying,” First, context
is everything. The Pharisees had just
attacked Christ on His refusal to speak out against, or end Roman taxation, the
number one job of the Messiah as the nation believed. Let that sink in a minute folks, the entire
nation believed that the Messiah would end Roman rule when He came. The entire nation for generations came to
believe this truth from studying their scriptures. They were reading the right texts, from the
right prophets, while worshipping the right God, and this is what they
collectively came to believe. There was
no sect of Israelites who disputed this view, it was a unanimous one. They were right, Jesus was wrong. Yet still, Jesus was able to dispute them
without losing the favor of the people.
While the Pharisees had failed, the Sadducees had prepared
yet a different attack. The Sadducees
made up the other half (or third if you count scribes independently) of the
Sanhedrin ruling body in Israel. They
did not rule over political matters, the Romans, and Herod did that. They ruled over religious matters, which to a
believing Jew were far more important. The
Sadducees however, did not share the view of the rest of the Sanhedrin where it
came to a resurrection. They believed
life was a one and done proposition.
This was the key distinction that kept them apart from the rest of the
Sanhedrin. If they had abandoned this
belief they might as well had been part of the Pharisaical order. But the Sadducees were devout (translate
stubborn) on this point, and would not give up their interpretation for any
argument the Pharisees, scribes, or Jesus could present. They knew they were right about this
interpretation. Sound familiar? How many of us are certain about our
doctrines? Completely certain.
The entire nation was certain about the role of the Messiah
ending Roman rule. And Jesus did not end
it. What is more, He never spoke a word
against it. He advocated giving money to
it. He forgave Roman soldiers for
killing Him at the cross. And He healed
Romans and Roman children anytime they asked throughout His entire ministry. During His trial He convinced Pilot of His
innocence, but did not demand His freedom.
Despite Rome being the pinnacle for wickedness and sins against the
people of Israel, Jesus did not make one move to end or diminish their
rule. He did not speak one word against
them. He advocated service and love, not
resistance in any form. This is how evil
is ended, it is driven out, driven away, by love. A message for us, in our vain quest to
legislate it away, or fight it away, or kill it as we defend ourselves. And our entire nation is just as certain
about our beliefs in this matter. All of
us wrong as well.
Nevertheless, as the Sadducees had reached the point of
absolute certainty that the scriptures, held up their beliefs about the lack of
a resurrection, they had devised a trap of their own for Jesus. Mark continues in verse 19 … “Master, Moses
wrote unto us, If a man's brother die, and leave his wife behind him, and leave
no children, that his brother should take his wife, and raise up seed unto his
brother.” Before we let ourselves be
taken into an impossible choice, perhaps we should examine the premise a bit
more carefully. First, taking care of
widows and orphans, or rather, taking care of the most helpless, and poor who
surround us, is an extremely high priority with our God. Refusing to do so, reveals the extent of our
own selfishness, and the lack of a transformation in our hearts. So because the traditions of men in the times
of Moses, did not allow for a woman to own property, or care for herself … when
her husband died, she risked becoming impoverished. If she had children (particularly a male
child), her son could inherit the land, and care for his mother. But without a male heir, in a male dominated
society, not dictated so by God, the rules of society in the time of Moses
created the situation of poverty a woman would face.
To account for this situation, Moses offers, that the
brother of the widow, now take her in, and care for her. But from the brother in law perspective, if
he could impregnate her with a male child the problem takes care of
itself. And so for laziness on the part
of the in-law he would rather impregnate her with a son, than have to care and
feed her for the rest of his own life.
All of this complexity, because men had created a male dominated
society, instead of an independent one in the first place. Now lesser sins were to be committed to avoid
greater ones, in order to resolve a situation men created. What if the brother in law was already
married? Is he to take 2 wives now to
fix this? The complexities of a
recommendation like this derive from a mis-reading of the intent of Moses, to
care for a widow who is already related to a family, who should already have
been caring for her, for life.
The premise is steeped in selfishness, not charity as Moses
had intended. They continue picking up
in verse 20 … “Now there were seven brethren: and the first took a wife, and
dying left no seed. [verse 21] And the second took her, and died, neither left
he any seed: and the third likewise. [verse 22] And the seven had her, and left
no seed: last of all the woman died also. [verse 23] In the resurrection
therefore, when they shall rise, whose wife shall she be of them? for the seven
had her to wife.” The Sadducees who did
not believe this situation could ever materialize anyway, now used it to trap
Jesus. If Jesus did not believe in
marriage or the resurrection, they would not have picked this topic to trap
Him. But Jesus believed in both.
Jesus responds in verse 24 saying … “And Jesus answering
said unto them, Do ye not therefore err, because ye know not the scriptures,
neither the power of God?” Jesus tells
them their interpretation of scriptures, the one they are so certain about, the
one that distinguishes them as different … is wrong. Not only are they wrong about the
resurrection, they are wrong about marriage.
This situation they bring up is not an unrealistic one. There are certain to be widows in heaven who
remarried after their spouse died. The
dead spouse is unaware of this until the resurrection. When the dead spouse awakens their hearts are
still in love with a spouse who has moved on with someone else. What will God do? God can and will heal the hearts of the
hurting, taking from them any pain.
There will be no jealousy as only our God can accomplish. And He will resolve these situations as they
were intended to be, introducing the partner we were intended for, allowing the
servant to remain single, or preserving the marriage of folks who do not have
this complication. The point of Jesus,
is that the power of God can un-complicate what sin has complicated. Jesus declares they do not understand
marriage, Moses, or the resurrection.
Jesus continues in verse 25 saying … “For when they shall
rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as
the angels which are in heaven.” It is
from this text we modern Christians believe there is no marriage in heaven
anymore. It is the context we miss
again. “For when they rise” is a future
tense statement, it is intended to declare to the Sadducees, that there will be
a resurrection. This is to declare to
the Sadducees that their only distinctive belief is wrong. Certainty is arrogance. Next, consider the back half of this analogy
… do you know how the angels in heaven live?
Do you know if there are female and male angels? Do you know if they have partners like the
spouses we have on earth? Or is it
possible for your finite mind, to grasp the idea of loving literally everyone
in heaven so much that the distinction between spouse, child, parent, and
friend cannot be determined. The point
is not to apply our ideas of interpretation of scriptures on God, the point is
to let God work His power, and trust whatever He does with your heart is OK for
him to do. God has to undo 6,000 years
of the impacts of sin. We need that
baseline before we start worrying about social constructs, or the lack of them.
But one thing we should remember … marriage was created
before sin, and meant to endure forever.
If sin had never come Adam and Eve would still be married, their
offspring would still be married, as would theirs, as would theirs, and so on,
and so on. All of these marriages
eternal in nature. While we have damaged
the institution of marriage badly, we have not killed it yet. God can undo what we have done through the
hardness of our hearts. And if or when
He does, our only job is to trust Him, not to dictate to Him what it should
look like.
Jesus continues in verse 26 saying … “And as touching the
dead, that they rise: have ye not read in the book of Moses, how in the bush
God spake unto him, saying, I am the God of Abraham, and the God of Isaac, and
the God of Jacob? [verse 27] He is not the God of the dead, but the God of the
living: ye therefore do greatly err.”
The most important point Jesus makes in this passage is at the outset of
the verse … as touching the dead, that they rise. This is not a statement about immediate life
after death. This is not about
disembodied ghosts running around heaven in spirit form. This is about real people, who really died,
were really buried, and will one day REALLY rise again in a resurrection. The God of the living statement is a proof
Jesus offers to insure the resurrection will one day occur (and that these
three men will be in it). Lastly, even
though these Sadducees were religious men, leaders in the church, they were
wrong, according to Christ very wrong.
Now let us skip forward to our age. How many of us hold to doctrines with
absolute certainty the scriptures back our positions with an affirmative “thus
saith the Lord”. Yet there are many
different Christian churches, all with differing positions on doctrines. Beyond the generalities of our differences,
how many times do you attempt to create an impossible situation in your own
prayer life to dictate to God what the outcome must be. You pray, God give me this, or give me
that. You do not introduce alternatives,
or ask God to fix the situation. Instead,
you outline only few choices and expect Him to pick from the ones you give
Him. How many times does your certainty
about doctrine and scriptural interpretation constrict what you pray for, or
how you pray, or how you expect God to answer?
We pray for a sinner engaged in sin to be saved, because our
version of scriptural understanding declares his behavior to be wrong. Samples of such sins include: wearing shorts
or jeans to church, a woman wearing her hair up, or having it cut. We condemn eating unclean meats, clean meats,
meat by-products, canned fruits or vegetables, or anything GMO. We condemn social behaviors like sex before
marriage, the wrong kind of sex in marriage, no sex in marriage, self-service
sex anytime, and lust as a general rule.
We condemn electric instruments in church, the organ in church, modern
ditties instead of arias in church, chants of any kind. When you look for sins to condemn, you will
find many through history, in everyone but yourself. While we waste our time praying for less
jeans or shorts in church, we are effectively asking God to change the heart of
ones who already love Him passionately, but do not dress according to our
standards. While we dress right, and
love Him not at all. We would do better
to pray for more love, and let God fix the sin problem in all of us, our
neighbor included. We need not focus on
sin in our prayer, we need to focus on the cure to sin in our prayers, of His
transforming love to reach us.
How can there be an impossible choice, if our God makes all
things possible. When Satan asks us to
choose between the lesser of two evils, we should ask our God to choose another
way altogether for us. Where it comes to
our doctrines, we should abandon certainty, and ask Christ to lead us with
humility in our hearts, realizing we may well be wrong. The entire nation of Israel was wrong. The nation of our America could be wrong as
well. The right church, established by
Christ, was wrong on doctrine. Perhaps
your church or mine, established by Christ, could still be wrong as well. It is the certainty, that keeps us from
learning. It is the certainty, that
keeps us from being truly humble. It is
our humility, that brings out the child in us, and sets us free to finally
grasp His truth, in His time, and in His manner.