Our embrace of evil has brought with it the greatest of all
inhibitors to the state which God created us for; evil has brought with it a
termination to our life span. It was not
God’s design that we should get old and die.
In the Garden of Eden, God created for us the tree of life. This very real tree provided fruit which
served not only for every need our bodies would have to convert food into
energy (with zero waste byproducts), but also as a symbol to point out that all
life originates with God. It was in fact
God’s original design that our life span would indeed be ageless. It was only after our embrace of evil, that
our condition (i.e. physical, mental, moral, and spiritual) would be
degenerative and require a point of termination. Had Eve remained with Adam, or had Adam
trusted God enough to save Eve after her fall, we might never have known the
knowledge of age and death. Both Adam
and Eve were created into perfection, which included the “perfect” age or level
of maturity we would measure them by.
The right height, weight, and appearance – marks by which we measure age
– would have all been consistent with the standards of perfection that God
setup. In point of fact, we do not know
how long they lived in Eden before the fall (though we assume it was relatively
“brief”). But they could have been there
for 10 days or 10 decades and their appearances would have been unaltered by
time.
The process of the growth from birth to maturity however was
something that preceded evil. Even
before our species fell into evil, God’s command to everything He had created including
us was to “be fruitful and multiply”.
Procreation was therefore a cycle of life that God had built into every
creation of life He made, and it was an expectation it would continue. Babies would be born, and grow to the perfect
level of maturity, but that is as far as aging would ever be relevant. This includes baby birds, baby fish, baby
mammals, but it would also have included the process of germination for plant
life as well. Anything that could
procreate was directed to procreate. And
once again scripture does not point out a cap on this process. God does not say, go out and have exactly one
child, or one baby bird, or plant one more tree. It appears His intent was for His creations
to fill our world. But this brings up an
interesting point, why not simply do it Himself? He could have created the perfect number of
fish to fill all the lakes and streams and bodies of water so that procreation
was not necessary. He could have filled
the skies with the right number of birds, and planted the right amount of
foliage to populate our planet from end to end.
Even with man, He could have made several couples, or perhaps an entire
nation at once. But He did not. Instead it appears, He “seeded” our world
with His creation, and within the design of His creation, by intent, He made
procreation a part of our process.
Had Adam and Eve never sinned or broken trust with God, they
too would have procreated with Cain, Abel, and Seth having been born into our
perfect world in the perfect process of procreation. In fact it is only identified after we broke
trust with God that “pain” would be a part of the procreation process. Had we never sinned, the process of birth
would have been completely devoid of pain.
It might even have been one of pleasure (you know like the one at
conception). Regardless, scripture does
not tell us that Adam and Eve were meant to only make 3 sons, or that they
stopped with only 3. Logic dictates that
they were giving birth to daughters as well, and probably had a significant
number of children after Seth and before the effects of aging finally set
in. Both our original parents lived well
into their 900’s after all. Scripture
further places no pre-conceived ideas about when (if ever) procreation should
have stopped. Using our human logic, we
would naturally assume the goal was populate only our world. But then that is based merely on human
limitations. Just to look into the sky
at night, is to see with the naked eyes, stars beyond counting. Each star could have a system of planets
associated with it, much like our own.
In the perfection of heaven, it is possible each couple united in
marriage could travel to a distant world and begin populating it all over
again. Just to fill up the ones in this
galaxy might take us “forever”. Adding
to that number, how long it would take to fill up another galaxy or another, or
perhaps even an entirely parallel universe, etc.; the point is simply that without constraining
growth to human limitations, the process of procreation could be as infinite as
the years we were intended to live.
It would appear then, that a return to the state of
perfection we were intended to be, would be a return for each of us to the
“perfect” age, and uniquely personal “perfect” appearance each of us was
designed for. Children might still be
born, and age to “maturity”, but upon reaching maturity they become
ageless. In that perfect state of
maturity, the ability to distinguish between mother and daughter and sister and
wife and friend becomes impossible based on appearances. Perhaps then, honoring my mother, is not just
about recognizing a woman who appears older than me, but about how I treat the
woman who gave birth to me. Perhaps it
does not matter how old my mother is, in terms of how I honor her and show her
love in the world that is to come. Her
age will impact her in this world of pain, and so while here I may tailor how I
show my love to her to account for the impacts of aging. In heaven, however, and for the eternity of
time we will spend together, honoring her will take a bit different
approach. Loving and honoring her in a
unique way will set her apart as my mother.
From our appearances (other than perhaps family resemblance) you could
not tell if she were my mother, or my daughter, or my sister. Perhaps this was one of the intentions of God
in the first place, that the distinctions we use today on how we love each
other might give way to broader concepts of what family is, in the perfect destiny
of heaven.
Indeed it might be very difficult to distinguish who is my
mother, sister, daughter, relative or friend in the perfection that is
heaven. The only real way to know might
be how we treat each other. But then, in
the perfection of heaven, even that might make the differences indistinguishable. Love after all, and service to others, is the
guiding principle of the government of heaven and character of God. Expressions of love to others would be constant,
intense, and passionate in the perfection of heaven, making the relationships
between one person and another hard to discern by sight alone. Perhaps this was by intent. Perhaps this is what God had in mind for us
all along. Perhaps this is what it means
to be part of the “family” of God, that our actual blood lines make nearly no
difference at all, in who we call family and in how we treat them. In the perfection of heaven, my own daughters
and son, will be loved by you as much as they are loved by me. In point of fact, you would do anything you
could to bring joy to them, as I would do for your children. In this sense, our families are immediately
blended, without hesitation, regret, or fear.
You holding my child is as natural as me holding yours. There are no fears that are tied to evil
intentions, motives, or actions as in the perfection of heaven these cease to
exist. Through the process of recreation
we are made into something new, not only absent sin and evil and slavery to
self, but someone who is able to love without ceasing or distinction.
Only one relationship may remain distinct in the perfection
of heaven, and that may be husband and wife.
Again like here on earth, the only way to discern this relationship from
others, is based on how we behave, and how we treat each other. A ring does not make one married; fidelity
does, love does, commitment does, sacrifice does, trust does, honest and open
communication does. In heaven, if it is
the wish of our Lord for us to continue His designs of procreation and family
units as He originally setup in the garden of Eden, I expect each of us might
find ourselves in a perfect pairing. I
do not think our Lord would separate a couple like Adam and Eve in the
perfection of heaven, because subsequent generations steeped in the selfishness
of evil have made a mess and a mockery of the concept of marriage. It would not be fair to part Adam from Eve,
because we have made commitments to more than one spouse over the course of our
selfish lives. Nor would I expect, that
Eve was supposed to be the perfect mate for anyone other than Adam, and he for
her. That marriage was created in
perfection, and I would expect it would continue in the perfection that is to
come. No doubt there will be a lot of
work from our God, in cleaning up the messes we have made of relationships and
marriages in our world of sin. But that
does make this work impossible to complete, and perfectly accepted by us when
it is. To be willing to give even our
desires, our romances, and our commitments to God is a key part of the process
of re-creation, and allows God to do with us as He originally intended, not be
constrained with what we have messed up.
To be ageless then is to lose the physical distinctions that
set us apart, and to see each other regardless of our bloodlines as equal, and
as equal opportunities to love. Our
families are destined to be so much larger than we see them today, not simply
because in heaven I may be introducing myself to my mother’s - mother’s -
mother’s - mother for more generations than I am currently able to count (back
to Eve); but because more than just by bloodline, you will be my family by my
choice and by your own. My children will
be as your children, and your children will be as my own. I will wish to honor, not only my own mother,
but yours as well. How we treat each
other in the perfection of heaven, in the perfection of love expressed, should
work its way into our thinking about how we see each other in this world as
well.
Today, in the strength of our own humanity, we can
accomplish none of this. It is in that
sense beyond idealistic. But our limiter
was never intended to be “human” strength and perspective. We are destined to be measured by His power,
by His perspectives; and we can accomplish these things by letting Christ
change us from the inside out. We can learn
to reflect His love through us, instead of trying to originate love within us
on our own. We can learn to see each
other through His eyes, instead of trying to mimic what He did on our own. The secret to achieving the perfection of
heaven in the here and now is not about what we conquer in ourselves, it is
about what we surrender to Christ of ourselves.
Increased surrender of who we are, until we have given it all, will lead
us to what He is able to do in us, and no longer will be constrained by “human”
weakness. Indeed His love reflected
through us will become limitless as it becomes ageless…